Reading an article on the internet today gave me an idea to write. Thank you internet you are ever helpful. The article was about relationships and how the meaning of the same is lost in these times. I am no one to judge choices and make statements that a few lifestyles are right and others are wrong. I try not to be judgmental about most of the things in the world. However I do have opinions as to how I would like to be treated. Maybe I am choosing my OPTIONS :)
Relationships in general are complicated and more so when you have a mismatch in the priorities. Two people having the same values, roots and priorities in life make a strong relationship. People with multi-dimensional focus or lack of focus fall apart and harm their relationships. I am sure even they know, if not exactly then but later, that they ruined something they could have built upon forever.
Mostly, partners are taken for granted. A spouse thinks that their better half will be there forever with them even if they have not fulfilled certain key expectations of their spouses. Men and women alike overlook the itsy bitsy bits in the daily routine of the hectic lives they lead. When demanded an answer most of the times the hectic work schedule is to be blamed. I wonder when was there ever a time when people weren't busy living their lives? The 40's 60's WHEN??
I agree times have changed on the professional front and everyone has a lot to do.. But I still don't know how can they not find time for their love? This sure means that whatever is the love of today's world it isn't being in a relationship. So does it mean that, the basic idea of a human has now changed from a SOCIAL being to just a BEING?? Getting the tasks done or doing it themselves just so that the PRECIOUS life would be easy and after their retirement??
What about the person beside you who wants to hold you now? Wants to tell you how important you are to them? What if the person you are trying to be with in future gets adjusted to your absence today? Knows now that you are unavailable for being held, loved and even sharing the life you promised each other? What if the person who you want to be with in future leaves you claiming that they can't take your absence anymore now?
Who is at fault?
Food for thought for the next write up :)
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