“I need my space”… isn’t it the most common phrase heard these days? How do you actually define space? And what are the parameters that determine how much space is available to whom? I would really like to have an answer to this question of mine! Please feel free to advise! Not that I promise to abide by it J but would surely consider it..
These days everybody wants their space, not saying that I don’t require mine!! I do however; what is beyond my comprehension is the intolerance we have towards everything. I am sure you would agree. No body tolerates a late delivery of their food ordered. No body tolerates the traffic jam, specially in Delhi.. Oh God!! Save us all from that.. It seems that patience has blown out of the window.. :P
Going back to what I was saying.. Intolerance is the “ IN - THING” these days.. I have grown up seeing my parents and my siblings tolerating me.. Tolerating all the crap and tantrums I used to throw at them.. And I was always blessed with friends also who “tolerated” whatever I said or did. They gave me my space to let me be me and be my original self.. J
I use the TSR, popularly know as Autos for my commutation. And I don’t have any other choice to listen to all their crap before they agree to (nearly) the fare I quote.. It was yesterday itself when I had to reach office at 9:30 and thanks to these stupid and non sense Auto Walas in Delhi that it took me 45 minutes to get one!! They really check my patience.. And tolerance.. J
I wonder what would happen to me in the coming years when I might be dependent on many other factors than the ones now!! I hope and wish that I develop enough patience level to tolerate everything I see and hear in life!!
I pray for you all too!!
These days everybody wants their space, not saying that I don’t require mine!! I do however; what is beyond my comprehension is the intolerance we have towards everything. I am sure you would agree. No body tolerates a late delivery of their food ordered. No body tolerates the traffic jam, specially in Delhi.. Oh God!! Save us all from that.. It seems that patience has blown out of the window.. :P
Going back to what I was saying.. Intolerance is the “ IN - THING” these days.. I have grown up seeing my parents and my siblings tolerating me.. Tolerating all the crap and tantrums I used to throw at them.. And I was always blessed with friends also who “tolerated” whatever I said or did. They gave me my space to let me be me and be my original self.. J
I use the TSR, popularly know as Autos for my commutation. And I don’t have any other choice to listen to all their crap before they agree to (nearly) the fare I quote.. It was yesterday itself when I had to reach office at 9:30 and thanks to these stupid and non sense Auto Walas in Delhi that it took me 45 minutes to get one!! They really check my patience.. And tolerance.. J
I wonder what would happen to me in the coming years when I might be dependent on many other factors than the ones now!! I hope and wish that I develop enough patience level to tolerate everything I see and hear in life!!
I pray for you all too!!
7 comments:
passer by said...
You thinking too deep pal.. don't worry about the room.. the good thing about that is there isn't the minimum size, the absence of the other limit too is a factor..
Is one euphemistic when he uses "Tolerance" for helplessness..donno..
as for the definition of that room.. i would say "absence of questions i do not want to answer" is room enough for me..
Meg said...
About Space: I would say it is all about your mind. If your mind is ready to believe there is a lot of space, 'your space,' trust me no fucking body can take that away from you.
About Patience: I agree. Its out!
But we cant always start. Lets be more patient and tolerant. Lets do it together. What say>
Neha Jha said...
@ meg:
i agree.. let's do it..
@shashi:
thank you for the advice! i would not think too deep... :)
screaM said...
if u ladies will be more patient and tolerant
it would be a great gift for me
thank you...........
Neha Jha said...
@ Metal Militia: do i know you? anyways thank you for the comment though i do not appreciate it.. bye!!
screaM said...
how many ppl in the whole world do u know ........ who could go by the name of metal militia........watch the name closely and use the thing which u havent used in decades ....... ur head ....... to think.......
Neha Jha said...
@ metal militia.. oh this is you moron munna!